The Lived Experiences of Rido: The Meranao Case

“Rido” (clan feud) among Meranaos has been classified as one of the most recurring problems that hinder individual and social development. Parents and children vary in their experiences and the consequences they faced. This study aims to: investigate the nature of rido and its causes; describe the impact of rido on parents and children in their mental and physical health; and identify their coping mechanisms. The study is qualitative-phenomenological research that employed key-informant interviews. Twenty respondents were selected through snowball sampling from rido high-risk municipalities in Lanao del Sur. Findings revealed that the most common cause of rido experienced by the respondents is politics. Political rivalry fueled by the social group’s concept of honor and maratabat (pride) aggravated the problem. Eventually, they suffered from grief, anxiety, and depression from traumatic turmoil and hiding. Children lost a sense of belongingness and interest from frequent changes of residence and school. Respondents’ families suffered from a common physical ailment that varies from mild to severe condition. Both parents and children are coping through pangni (prayers), but children are more likely to resort to retaliation. Trained psychosocial support that is culture-sensitive should be available to address the needs of the victims of rido particularly in especially in areas where it is mostly observed.